Reflections on Pride Month
It’s astonishing and disheartening to realize that we still live in a society where so many people hate others based on who they love. If you have doubts, I invite to open any social media post highlighting Pride Month and scan the comment section. Some of the most vile, disgusting language from small-minded, angry people is aimed at a community of folks who want nothing more than to live their lives as their authentic selves. How can that be so threatening to those fatuous cretins in the comment section?
I hope that if you call yourself an ally you are in those comment sections, refuting the ignorance and hate. Not for the purpose of changing their minds- that is highly unlikely- but so that our LGBTQIA+ friends will see supportive, affirming, loving comments and have some level of relief knowing that someone is willing to speak up for them. It’s literally the least you can do as an ally.
Why is Pride important?
Because people in this country are still being targeted for who they are. Thousands of anti-LGBTQIA+ hate crimes are reported each year, and many more are estimated to go unreported, according to the Department of Justice.
Because equality isn’t universal. Queer people continue to face discrimination in schools, workplaces, housing, healthcare, and public spaces. In more than half of the states in America there are no employment protections for a queer person and they can be fired simply for being gay.
Because history matters. Pride commemorates the resistance that followed the Stonewall Uprising, a pivotal moment in the modern LGBTQIA+ rights movement.
Because visibility saves lives. Seeing openly LGBTQIA+ people, families, leaders, and allies can reduce isolation and help young people realize they are not alone.
Because rights require protection. Legal and social progress has been significant, but it has not eliminated prejudice or violence, and protections continue to be debated and changed in many jurisdictions.
My queer friends, I see you, I love you, I stand with you, and I will use my voice to drown out the hateful minority. I’m so glad you’re here, my loves. Happy Pride. Every day.